I really hate all you people who act like inviting someone is so hard to things in Abyssea when they are just after a win. Its like Damn man, simple /sea name and invite then kick them if they lot on anything, you still have a leader thing (considered in party mode) and items don't drop if I remember right unlike in Alliance situations.
I know all these years of ninja players and random *** has hardened everyone's spirits. Making mostly everyone not want to help a random player.
But how many times were you helped when you were that random player?
Don't tell me no one ever helped you that you didn't know, with something, anything, because I'll call ***.
I've helped out tons of people 85% I can't remember their names and probably 100% of that 85% don't even remember me. Hell I don't even remember 60% of the people who helped me, but I do remember getting some help at different parts of my career on FFXI.
I may not be able to help the same people who helped me because they've long quit playing but I do go out of the way every now and then to help someone I don't know like they did.