FFXI LGBT Community, Who Are You?

i dont know

i dont believe i have to suffer with it though, im tired of the world revolving around what other people want

i know if i want any chance at things developing in the future, i've to ride it out but, gah i don't like playing on the future

Just give it space and think it over. Not to sound cliche but you'll know what's right.

we had a pretty bad argument today and said some bad stuff :/

You shouldn't be friends with a guy just so you can try to change his mind about dating you.

First of all, it's not fair to you. You'll spend so much time and energy wondering if you're making the right moves, but odds are you'll end up getting hurt again.

It's also not fair to the other guy; if you pursue this friendship with an ulterior motive in mind, he's very likely to be aware of it. At this point, you'll both be caught in the trap of having to navigate your "friendship" like it's a minefield--you'll be trying to quietly steal his heart while he'll be trying to withdraw to a comfortable distance without hurting you. He doesn't want that to happen either.

In the end I think it's better for everyone if you respect his decision and either accept the friendship for what it is, or spend that energy on someone who does share your goals and feelings.

Oh, and kudos (and THANK YOU) to Maryland and Maine for bringing us this latest breakthrough in civil rights~

They better werq!!

I hate working at my school's library. Too much eye candy at times.

Hi boys. Long time no talk!

hi sevvy

Ugh. I just had a Grindr Nightmare. Does anyone here use Grindr?

no but i know what it is

Ugh. So anyways, I hop on grindr today to say hi to a friend I have on there, and I get this PAGE LONG MESSAGE. (it's really not a page long, it's a good paragraph or two) from this random guy twice my age. Basically, it goes along the lines of:

Hi, I live in [my town]. I see you at [my place of work] all the time, and I think you're really cute, and super funny when you act all sassy like a gay man. Anyways, I was wondering if you wanted to do anything. My name is ---.

Then he proceeds to send a pic of himself, and then a *** pic.

Ugh, I feel so violated. The worst part is he visits every day, so that's going to be awkward...

:<

Lo'

He was that taru (same model as mine iirc) who bought gil and made stupid shouts in Jeuno all the time.

Also hi!

All the time.

Hate when people do that. Just a question though, what do you list as "looking for" on your profile? If it's anything more than friends, he could have just assumed you were open to it.

Grindr. The depressing, yet inevitable, conclusion of location-based social networking.

Is there a bear version of grindr?

And also I think I want to come back to the game for a while XIV is boring and I miss daggers and scythes. So with that said are there any worthwhile events?

Grindr is depressing cause all the hot guys live too far from me ;(

come move to st. pete florida!

Yes.

and now I am intrigued.

Also Scruff

Block him. I pay the extra monthly fee for Grindr Xtra. It's so worth it. Unlimited blocks and u can view guys who are ONLY online.

Oh that's right, *** yeah Unicorn.

And Grindr is depressing because everyone on it is incredibly uninteresting and usually quite unattractive. Spending time on Grindr is like staring long into the abyss.

Anthony have you been to Here lounge? or fiesta Cantina? My friends bday party thing is going to be there and I'm curious to know how either of those places are =DI might be wrong but didn't you and cair have a thing going back in EX?(hopefully you are the right person >_>""}

/pokes Ustav :p

TGIF people!

;D ohi there good looking!!!!!

So what have you been up too?

Not much sleeping/bleeding money ;)

Hong Kong Pride starts in 2 hours, /joy :D

Also the Chinese government killed my VPN so I need find another one or else I'll have to come back to HK every time I wanna use the internet. <.<

And as for the grindr situation above, isn't that the kind of thing you should expect will happen when you use a hookup app lol D: ??