Bahamut.Baconwrap said: »
I had the fortune of taking this while walking my dog minutes ago!!!
I love this guy he's so nice and funny. Always see him out on weekends dressed up!
Ohohohoho~
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I had the fortune of taking this while walking my dog minutes ago!!!
I love this guy he's so nice and funny. Always see him out on weekends dressed up!
Ohohohoho~
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That pic gives a new meaning to "easy breezy beautiful cover girl!"
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Off-topic, but obviously people have way too much time on their hands:
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Fenrir.Toogood said: »
Off-topic, but obviously people have way too much time on their hands:
I literally exclaimed, "Aww!!! That's so sad!!!"
What do you do when someone continuously lies to you and hides things from you, even when you confront them with the evidence that you know they're lying/hiding stuff and they act like they did nothing wrong?
Tell them you're not going to play these games and stop talking to them until they grow up. >.> just what I'd do.
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Asura.Shayka said: »
What do you do when someone continuously lies to you and hides things from you, even when you confront them with the evidence that you know they're lying/hiding stuff and they act like they did nothing wrong?
Depends how well you know this person. Personally I'd do the tact thing and say nothing and just kinda distance yourself. Confrontation tends to never go well with liars/shady people. They interpret it as intrusion.
Asura.Shayka said: »
What do you do when someone continuously lies to you and hides things from you, even when you confront them with the evidence that you know they're lying/hiding stuff and they act like they did nothing wrong?
Call them out on it.
Val.. that avatar >.>
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Bismarck.Cicada said: »
Val.. that avatar >.>
Hmm, I suck at distancing myself from people and in this situation would do more harm than good anyways -_- and I have to keep talking to them, I am just done dealing with the lies and all.
Story in a nutshell, trying to fix a marriage, hes "trying" he says, but keeps hiding important things and doing other things he knows he shouldn't, not willing to just give up on everything, it leads to arguments and fights, but he continues to act as if its okay he does this. I've been entirely honest even when I shouldn't be, to prove I have nothing to hide and to prove I want to fix things, its just frustrating =/ and people keep telling me to just let it be, let him do whatever and that I am wrong and hes in the right for this.
Story in a nutshell, trying to fix a marriage, hes "trying" he says, but keeps hiding important things and doing other things he knows he shouldn't, not willing to just give up on everything, it leads to arguments and fights, but he continues to act as if its okay he does this. I've been entirely honest even when I shouldn't be, to prove I have nothing to hide and to prove I want to fix things, its just frustrating =/ and people keep telling me to just let it be, let him do whatever and that I am wrong and hes in the right for this.
Shay, you are never wrong for being open. I think that sometimes people misplace opinions when they aren't in the situation. If you know that you feel right about what you are doing, you don't need anyone's reassurance. I am not sure if they might be bias as having friendship to the both of you, but in my opinion, you're in the right.
No one can be faulted for trying.
No one can be faulted for trying.
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Fenrir.Toogood said: »
Shay, you are never wrong for being open. I think that sometimes people misplace opinions when they aren't in the situation. If you know that you feel right about what you are doing, you don't need anyone's reassurance. I am not sure if they might be bias as having friendship to the both of you, but in my opinion, you're in the right.
No one can be faulted for trying.
No one can be faulted for trying.
Asura.Shayka said: »
Hmm, I suck at distancing myself from people and in this situation would do more harm than good anyways -_- and I have to keep talking to them, I am just done dealing with the lies and all.
Story in a nutshell, trying to fix a marriage, hes "trying" he says, but keeps hiding important things and doing other things he knows he shouldn't, not willing to just give up on everything, it leads to arguments and fights, but he continues to act as if its okay he does this. I've been entirely honest even when I shouldn't be, to prove I have nothing to hide and to prove I want to fix things, its just frustrating =/ and people keep telling me to just let it be, let him do whatever and that I am wrong and hes in the right for this.
Story in a nutshell, trying to fix a marriage, hes "trying" he says, but keeps hiding important things and doing other things he knows he shouldn't, not willing to just give up on everything, it leads to arguments and fights, but he continues to act as if its okay he does this. I've been entirely honest even when I shouldn't be, to prove I have nothing to hide and to prove I want to fix things, its just frustrating =/ and people keep telling me to just let it be, let him do whatever and that I am wrong and hes in the right for this.
It seems to me you have put effort. There also comes a time when you just need to walk away from some situations. There is a point you reach(not saying this is it), but many times in life, where you become just as much as fault for staying in the destructive relationship.
I've have had my handful of liars/shady men in my past. I've learnt the best way to deal with it is just to walk away. When I was younger i did the whole confrontation thing. But as you get older you realize there are plenty of fish in the sea, and most of the time its just not worth the headache to stay in those damaging relationships.
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I agree with that as well, I think I am almost at my point, its just getting up the courage? Or the strength? Even ability to just walk away, that I think I will have trouble with. I'm the kinda idiot that will keep trying and keep trying to keep a relationship going, to fix it, even if I am miserable, because it just seems so much harder to give up and walk away.
Its not so much courage its more tolerance. As you get older you become more pragmatic and a pacifist. I've done the fights, I've done the confrontation. At the end of the day it rarely was worth it. If you two are constantly fighting that's a big red flag of how stable the relationship is.
repost!
repost!
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hello all ! and /blush to gaspee so still doing qilin on bismarck for get thaat corus? i drop her to raganrok weird ! just changing server and one night DROPPPPPPPPPPPP ! finally i was screaming like a pigs at home ..
so rare/ex picture post u have baconwarp where i can drop this one ? :)
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Home from Vegas, was a fabulous trip although pieces are a bit blacked out.
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i reaaly need to learn english language ..
in 2013 francois hollande will legalise gay mariage in france .. that he's says ! :) so i can ask to gaspee marry me !!!
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Ragnarok.Haorhu said: »
in 2013 francois hollande will legalise gay mariage in france .. that he's says ! :) so i can ask to gaspee marry me !!!
Wait i thought you wanted me to hook you up with my friend on the Bike. lol
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Oh my god, the fabulous guy made my day! lol
Hooray for him being proud of himself! =)
Hooray for him being proud of himself! =)
O.o no thanks your friends its maybe very ......? and you ?
Ragnarok.Haorhu said: »
O.o no thanks your friends its maybe very ......? and you ?
I'm a shadow compared to my friend. She's all woman! My body isn't as cute! And I definitely don't have her legs!
i dont beleive u bacon do you have some pics of you ?
(im the one with the white tshirt)
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