Sylph.Fulmination said: »
Came out to my dad last night ^^ Went well. Kinda boring. I got hungry and left.
;o He take it well?
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;o He take it well?
The response I got from my friends when I came out: "Duh!"
My step-mom said
"Yeah, I've pretty much known for the past 2 years."
:< lol
"Yeah, I've pretty much known for the past 2 years."
:< lol
I think some of my family probably has the general idea, some friends should know unless they havn't taken me seriously when I've used the line "It's like me and can go both ways". The only person I'm really all that worried about finding out is my one grandpa because he is all old fasioned and not mentally stable at this point >.> so as long as hes around I'm avoiding being to blunt about it.
Sylph.Fulmination said: »
Came out to my dad last night ^^ Went well. Kinda boring. I got hungry and left.
omg all this time I thought you were straight lol
Asura.Ina said: »
I think some of my family probably has the general idea, some friends should know unless they havn't taken me seriously when I've used the line "It's like me and can go both ways". The only person I'm really all that worried about finding out is my one grandpa because he is all old fasioned and not mentally stable at this point >.> so as long as hes around I'm avoiding being to blunt about it.
Yeah, same thing goes with me and my grandparents.
Haven't told them because they're old-fashioned scrictly 'by-the-bible' type people.
Fenrir.Stiklelf said: »
Judaine :O
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When I told my parents they freaked out on me. My mom told me to grab my stuff and leave (I was 17) but after a week she called me and told me to come home and we'd discuss things. My parents were both raised in very religious families and they are older, like they are near most of my friends grandparents age so I think that was definitely a contributing factor to the way they reacted.
All of my friends knew I was gay before I knew I was, lol. I had a problem staring at hot guys and not realizing I was so obvious!
And hi! I rarely ever post anymore... I should fix this. >_>;
All of my friends knew I was gay before I knew I was, lol. I had a problem staring at hot guys and not realizing I was so obvious!
And hi! I rarely ever post anymore... I should fix this. >_>;
Thanks! I actually transferred my character to Leviathan (new name too) the other day to try out a new server. It's always weird being on a new server.
All the hot guys move to levi after I leave?! WTF! :<
Brb making mule on Levi. (* '-')b
I kid I kid.. You should poke Hohenheim for me though! He's adorable. :3
I kid I kid.. You should poke Hohenheim for me though! He's adorable. :3
Haha, ok... I might. I'm pretty shy and the idea of randomly poking someone I don't know is a little weird for me lol >_>
oh look another hot guy.
welcome!
also, i thought i should post my new haircut in here too.
its a fauxhawk, but the angle makes it look weird
welcome!
also, i thought i should post my new haircut in here too.
its a fauxhawk, but the angle makes it look weird
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Phoenix.Aerika said: »
Haha, ok... I might. I'm pretty shy and the idea of randomly poking someone I don't know is a little weird for me lol >_>
Nice haircut Iro.^^
Don't be :P He's sweet. I started up a random convo with him and it was one of the best things I ever did on Levi xD Now I miss him :<
Levi is nice, not much drama but was too slow for my tastes.. Steer clear of Vigor if he's still on that server lol He's psycho.
@Iro, how you doin' sexy? ;) how bout we go back to my place and reenact starwars?
Levi is nice, not much drama but was too slow for my tastes.. Steer clear of Vigor if he's still on that server lol He's psycho.
@Iro, how you doin' sexy? ;) how bout we go back to my place and reenact starwars?
It looks nice!
Why does everyone say that to me!? I am really shy though, I'm like 1000 times worse in person. I cannot walk up to some random person and ask them a question. I don't even like asking for help finding something in a store!
Why does everyone say that to me!? I am really shy though, I'm like 1000 times worse in person. I cannot walk up to some random person and ask them a question. I don't even like asking for help finding something in a store!
I'm not really in need of a fast past server. Phoenix is a really crowded server and it was difficult to get anything done.
I'll try to poke or wave to him though!
I'll try to poke or wave to him though!
lol put some Alex in your bazaar and he'll find you xD
did i hear alexandrite?
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Uh... If I had some I'd sell it to you for cheap @_@
Ragnarok.Judaine said: »
Asura.Ina said: »
I think some of my family probably has the general idea, some friends should know unless they havn't taken me seriously when I've used the line "It's like me and can go both ways". The only person I'm really all that worried about finding out is my one grandpa because he is all old fasioned and not mentally stable at this point >.> so as long as hes around I'm avoiding being to blunt about it.
Yeah, same thing goes with me and my grandparents.
Haven't told them because they're old-fashioned scrictly 'by-the-bible' type people.
funny awkward moment happened a few days ago with me, i went to go with my family to get the christmas stuff out of my great aunts/uncles storage building, and the conversation went to my sister's new bf, and it turned to me like "oh when are you gonna get a new girlfriend?" and then later on it turned to having kids -.-'
I know all to well how that awkward feeling of when family expects and assumes you want a girlfriend/kids. Most of family just thinks I'm going through a phase... 7 years later after I told everyone. The worst part is not knowing how to express and explain things to them when they are in denial.
Ya same here. My dads side of the family thinks that too, and hopes I choose to become straight :< Or it's because "i've never been with a girl"
Oh. That is my mother's FAVORITE argument. Like I hear it once every two weeks. I feel like that is a common thing for people who are in denial to latch on to? I like to reverse the question onto people and ask them how do they know they are straight if they haven't tried both. It's something that angers a lot of people. I also like to ask when did you choose to be straight? >_>
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