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 Asura.Kingnobody
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By Asura.Kingnobody 2014-05-23 11:04:28
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Now if you want a good example of trolling, look at Chanti's post.
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-23 11:06:19
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fonewear said: »
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Putting the blame on society is usually what the defense attorney does during closing arguments for a mass shooting case.

Or GTA V
Vice City was my game.
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Sylph.Systematicchaos said: »
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you're either happy with how you look or not, making excuses or blaming society isn't any better.
While I tend to like to look at things as black and white like this (apologies if this was already addressed), when society tells you you're undesirable, it's hard not to put at least some of the blame on it. I don't know a single person that can shake off constant barrage of insult and walk out completely unscathed, so I wouldn't expect someone who is fat to do so. When a vast majority of media is portrayed as a single body type, thin, it becomes ingrained to a lot of people that they should look like that media, even if it isn't what's common. It doesn't help that people go out of their way to throw insults at others for their body type either, which, while a choice in some cases, is not for many people. God forbid we aren't all twigs.
Nature tells us you adapt or you go extinct. Nature rule, Daniel-san, not mine. If we train kids to feel bullied and cry, they will not survive.

Not sure if trolling or ignorant. "Feeling bullied" generally comes as a result of "being bullied" especially in highlighted case above. Trying to remove the bully from the scenario and put the blame on victim would be rather tasteless, common as it may be in 'murica.
It's a 50/50 situation.

The people bullying are obviously idiots and guilty of going out of their way to attack someone instead of just ignoring his/her existence if he/she annoys you that much.
However, there are people who feel bullied when they are never bullied. Just knowing that they are a certain way, they feel watched, they feel judged, they feel attacked by others. The same way, there are people who are slightly bullied but as they have 0 backbone, they exaggerate it as if it was some very bad harassment.

So as much as being bullied is bad, having a backbone and analyzing the situation to not blow it out of proportion is also important.

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What if you are fat and racist should you just give up on life ?
No, just keep on voting Republican.

And back on topic, the fat are close to the only people we are allowed to poke fun at anymore.

Full disclosure: one of my best friends is well over 300 lbs. She jokes about going to a truck stop to get weighed.
Sounds like a fun woman.
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By Caitsith.Zahrah 2014-05-23 11:47:56
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Garuda.Chanti said: »
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Texas is it's own religion!
Hey, everyone! I watched 'Friday Night Lights' once! I'm kind of an authority on Texas now.

Yeah...I remember that comment.
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By Cerberus.Pleebo 2014-05-23 11:49:10
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Asura.Kingnobody said: »
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I am a large proponent of ignorance-shaming, though.
So, you shame yourself most of all then.

Yup, you said it yourself!
Asura.Kingnobody said: »
Denmark(ian?)
el oh el
(Thanks Chaos!)
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2014-05-23 11:51:16
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If you have nothing better to do with your day than make fun of someone for being fat or black or whatever else was talked about here then your life is probably pretty sad anyways...
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By Asura.Kingnobody 2014-05-23 12:05:13
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
If you have nothing better to do with your day than make fun of someone for being fat or black or whatever else was talked about here then your life is probably pretty sad anyways...
You going to take that Pleebo?
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-23 12:05:30
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
If you have nothing better to do with your day than make fun of someone for being fat or black or whatever else was talked about here then your life is probably pretty sad anyways...
What about making fun of people for being white?
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By Cerberus.Pleebo 2014-05-23 12:08:58
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I do have better things to do but that took 10 seconds of my time while I was eating and was really funny so it was worth it ^^
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By Asura.Kingnobody 2014-05-23 12:10:25
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Cerberus.Pleebo said: »
Asura.Kingnobody said: »
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I am a large proponent of ignorance-shaming, though.
So, you shame yourself most of all then.

Yup, you said it yourself!
Asura.Kingnobody said: »
Denmark(ian?)
el oh el
(Thanks Chaos!)
You apparently did not get that last quote from any of my posts, so should you shame yourself failing to make a point?

Or are you pretending to be smart by taking a quoted post from another person to prove whatever point you are trying to make?

Either way, it's pretty sad, even for you.
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By Cerberus.Pleebo 2014-05-23 12:14:02
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So are you saying that Chaos faked his post to make you look ignorant?
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By Asura.Echandra 2014-05-23 12:14:41
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You should all be ashamed!
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Leviathan.Chaosx said: »
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If you have nothing better to do with your day than make fun of someone for being fat or black or whatever else was talked about here then your life is probably pretty sad anyways...
What about making fun of people for being white?

Pfffttt...White people! Have you seen how they dance?
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By Asura.Kingnobody 2014-05-23 12:16:29
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Cerberus.Pleebo said: »
So are you saying that Chaos faked his post to make you look ignorant?

I'm saying that you had to get it off of somebody else's post, even though I corrected my own mistake.

But since you are so perfect and never make mistakes, I guess that concept escapes you.


And lets see if you can see the paradox in that statement. I highly doubt it, since your mental capacity hasn't been shown to be more than a rabbit in heat.
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By Cerberus.Senkyuutai 2014-05-23 12:22:54
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Leviathan.Chaosx said: »
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If you have nothing better to do with your day than make fun of someone for being fat or black or whatever else was talked about here then your life is probably pretty sad anyways...
What about making fun of people for being white?

Pfffttt...White people! Have you seen how they dance?
Some of them don't even bother to. Blasphemy.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2014-05-23 12:23:54
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How can you resist dancing when the music starts!
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By Bismarck.Ramyrez 2014-05-23 12:30:32
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Valefor.Sehachan said: »
How can you resist dancing when the music starts!

By remembering what I look like when I dance.
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By Leviathan.Chaosx 2014-05-23 12:31:25
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Leviathan.Chaosx said: »
Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
If you have nothing better to do with your day than make fun of someone for being fat or black or whatever else was talked about here then your life is probably pretty sad anyways...
What about making fun of people for being white?

Pfffttt...White people! Have you seen how they dance?
You haven't seen anything until you've seen me dance, lmao!
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By Lakshmi.Sparthosx 2014-05-23 12:39:01
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Valefor.Sehachan said: »
How can you resist dancing when the music starts!

The resulting chaos is all the resistance I need.
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By Fenrir.Camiie 2014-05-23 12:43:32
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Fenrir.Camiie said: »
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I know Elaine's the go-to for this conversation, but I promise you I'm worse.
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By Lakshmi.Sparthosx 2014-05-23 12:51:18
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
If you have nothing better to do with your day than make fun of someone for being fat or black or whatever else was talked about here then your life is probably pretty sad anyways...

Pretty sure you can make fun of others and still enjoy life. Most of our successful overlords seem to get away with it just fine.
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Bismarck.Ramyrez said: »
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How can you resist dancing when the music starts!

By remembering what I look like when I dance.

drink more then you wont remember ;P
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By Cerberus.Senkyuutai 2014-05-23 13:07:42
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Valefor.Sehachan said: »
How can you resist dancing when the music starts!
I'll dance if I'm alone or with someone that I know well and with who I can have fun.

If I'm at the club or whatever, it'll take me 3 to 4 beers before I start actually dancing.

Lakshmi.Sparthosx said: »
Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
If you have nothing better to do with your day than make fun of someone for being fat or black or whatever else was talked about here then your life is probably pretty sad anyways...

Pretty sure you can make fun of others and still enjoy life. Most of our successful overlords seem to get away with it just fine.
Indeed.

Things being "sad" is subjective, anyway.
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Bahamut.Aelissa said: »
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How can you resist dancing when the music starts!
By remembering what I look like when I dance.
drink more then you wont remember ;P

If I'm drinking so much I don't remember how badly I dance, I've consumed too much to physically be able to dance.

Unless you count the "stomach-pumping polka".
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Asura.Kingnobody said: »
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So are you saying that Chaos faked his post to make you look ignorant?

I'm saying that you had to get it off of somebody else's post, even though I corrected my own mistake.

But since you are so perfect and never make mistakes, I guess that concept escapes you.


And lets see if you can see the paradox in that statement. I highly doubt it, since your mental capacity hasn't been shown to be more than a rabbit in heat.
Why would the rabbit need to be in heat?
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Cerberus.Pleebo said: »
Why would the rabbit need to be in heat?

being in heat could actually bump a rabbit up an IQ point (or Bunny point, idk, we're in uncharted territory here) or two based on the windfall of hormones heightening it's rabbit senses in order to attempt to fornicate.

awwww ya.
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By Valefor.Sehachan 2014-05-23 13:50:41
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Bunny Points sounds awesome.
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By Shiva.Nikolce 2014-05-23 13:52:54
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let's move on to fat jokes.....

Fat people are harder to kidnap!
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