Asura.Abriannah said:
Gilgamesh.Samuraiking said:
Asura.Abriannah said:
Fenrir.Tool said:
Asura.Abriannah said:
Fenrir.Tool said:
Asura.Abriannah said:
I swear if another person I know gets engaged or has a kid I'm going to blow. I can't take it. :(
Why? I'd feel bad if they're any younger than 32 or so.
Because it's just.. irritating. I can't explain why.
Your body is screaming at you to make babies isn't it?
It isn't even so much me, but everyone around me. It seems like everyone I went to school with / my age are in these serious relationships.. getting married and/or having kids. I'm not saying it's smart that they are, I know they aren't but gosh.. I'm tired of society throwing it in my face how obvious it is I'm not going anywhere. That's including my parents who are telling me I need to have kids before I'm 30. ._.
Anti-depressants, do you needs it? If you want a baby I'll give you one, but I won't marry you or pay child support. >_>
Uh no. But thanks.
Fenrir.Tool said:
Kind of a strange direction our generation or culture in general has turned. Most folks of people my age were already hitched and pushin us out at around our current age. And here I am @23 not having marriage or children in mind anytime in the near future.
And yeah.. it is really strange. It feels like were going back to the days where women have the kids at these early *** ages and popping them out as fast as they can.
And this all really started because a really good old friend of mine got engaged tonight to someone she hasn't even been dating an year.. and all I can think is.. WHAT THE ... /sigh.
Oh and the other one.. got pregnant after two weeks of dating.
See that is the problem they are doing the wrong thing, back in the day your parents... hack my parents would lecture me... about what ever. How they busted their *** to give me and my siblings the life we have etc etc etc. and How they got married at a different time, and it was a different time. Blame this on the parents them selves, yes my parents were 21/20 when they got hitched... but oh wait... there is a cultural difference and they were not even in the USA yet.. and this was around the freaking early 70's.
If you see anyone having kids and rubbing it in your face about them flaunting on how they may have a better life than you shrug it off.
The people younger than you probably even than me, are a bunch of idiots the times are different. What my parents accomplished it would be harder on a new generation because as time went by the older people, ie the ones currently 40+ started treating people younger than them like ***.
When they learn to pass the torch mentality and ***like this will cease to be. I would be 23 years old 22 even and have a brother who is 9 years older than me, and anyone closer to his age group would treat people younger than them like ***, well because a 23 year old 3-4 1/2 years ago would be no different than someone who is 5-10 years older than them. Yet people to forget this generation, even though you may be 15-35 this is the same generation and those same old people look at you in the same light.
I used to go through a lot of that, I was raised by strict parents in a close nit family. The thing is... I have encountered people about 9-15 years older than me who treated me like ***or have, and even though it pissed me off.. I realized I was being compared to the 20 year olds around my age when I was ahead of them... I was closer to my brothers age group because of how I was raised and how strict my parents were, really had no friends, none. Highly intelligent etc.
Yet people probably still look at me like I am fighting a dead cause just because I do not want to get a girl pregnant or my view is different than theirs. I do not want to ruin my life that is that.
These *** you see having kids left and right are not better than you, they are trash between your toes, and they will realize the what if factor from things they did in the past.
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This culture generation was never changing, it is just that it has gone through a trend thanks to how the older gen (people 40+) has been treating all of us, and how the government portrays things. But there are certain things that should be the way they are, and this was not avoidable.
Now....
When you get older you realize past mistakes, and when you are at the mid 20ish age or heading there that is when your braiin starts telling the true difference between right and wrong, and if something you did or are doing is not right. So even though your friends or people you know even in school do not feel it yet, it will come and bite them in the ***.
"Why did I become a teen mom, my life is ruined, it would have been better if I listened to mom and dad! Q_Q"
"I have AiDs I did not listen when my dad told me he did not want me to be what ever or sleep around with boy or girl, why did not I not listen" "Now I am dead"
"I am a teen dad my life is *** up, paying 600+ for child support for 3 different baby mama's"
I am so glad I am not in any ***like this! Thanks to my mom and dad being strict with me and my siblings.
When I see someone I knew in school with a kid and I look at my life I pity them, it is not that kind of pity either.. just a different time with a hint of.... never mind.
So yeah you are not missing nothing, people should have learned what this age has been heading towards. I been thinking like this for a while now.
Fenrir.Tool said:
You are you hun. You do what you want with your life when you damn well please.
No disrespect, but *** your folk's expectations.
it May not even be only her folks it may be relatives/other people snickering and talking ***making her feel uncomfortable, like their kids are prefect when they mess up and have *** up lives
Point is *** off