Pretty much agree with what Dame, Dale and Spency have said. I thought at first was too soon, but then again you're always going to hurt at the loss of them. So I have a feeling even she waited a year, it'd still been too soon. I can see why it bothers them though, but I guess after losing my friend I've realized that you should try and enjoy life and find happiness. It's too short to sit and think about the past. But from what I've seen shes still in mourning and misses her husband dearly.
Pretty much agree with what Dame, Dale and Spency have said. I thought at first was too soon, but then again you're always going to hurt at the loss of them. So I have a feeling even she waited a year, it'd still been too soon. I can see why it bothers them though, but I guess after losing my friend I've realized that you should try and enjoy life and find happiness. It's too short to sit and think about the past. But from what I've seen shes still in mourning and misses her husband dearly.
the guy I saw getting killed on Friday, he was just a regular shmuck like the rest of us. He probably woke up that morning thinking it was gonna be another Friday. Then after work he probably wanted to hang out wit his boys and party.
Then he ended up in the street, flat on his back, with a head wound that gushed blood into the street. He went from Joe Shmo to H & R murder victim within about 17 hours.
/wave to Dame and Cheyne *hugs Angel So, out my own curiosity and well fact I'd like to see others opinions. Do yall think its okay for widowed spouses to move on after their spouse dies? Or should they have to wait a certain waiting period before they even should consider dating. Reason being I have a friend whose husband passed away bout 2 months ago due to a freak accident. She's recently started dating, and now his sister is raging at her, and even posting on her dead brother's FB page calling his wife a ***/***. So I was wondering what others think. My personal opinion is she has the right to find happiness and move on. She obviously still misses and loves her husband, they had their issues of course, and I feel she should find happiness and enjoy life. (sorry if this should be made into separate post somewhere else)
Yah 2 months is a pretty short time to get over losing your husband... but hey everyone is different, I think she should talk to the angry sister and explain how she feels instead of them exchanging childish comments.
The thing is they haven't exchanged childish comments lol its all on sister doing that bit. The wife never bragged bout her dates, or tried to rub it anyone's face. The sister is the one posting all the nasty comments, and the wife even tried talking to her via irl and explaining things to her, but the sister just sticks to the whole "your a ***, my brother deserved better" bit.
I didn't agree with them :P My sister-in-law is a stupid *** to begin with, but if my brother died and she started dating 2 months later, we'd have words.
that's not a very nice thing to say about your family in law >_>
I didn't agree with them :P My sister-in-law is a stupid *** to begin with, but if my brother died and she started dating 2 months later, we'd have words.
that's not a very nice thing to say about your family in law >_>
You don't know my family in law. I despise every single one of them.
My sister-in-law is a stupid *** to begin with, but if my brother died and she started dating 2 months later, we'd have words.
Yah that I can understand lol, and sad part is the wife even tried talking to the sister to explain things, and to share her side. Seems the sister just stuck in a hateful mode and has been raging on his page as well as at others that are friends with her. I personally felt it was a bit soon, it hurt because part me thought "she got over him that quick", but I realized in her position, you'll never be over someone you love. 10 years from now you'll still miss them. So why spend rest your life alone. I guess though a normal waiting period would be year? I dunno as I've never dealt with this before.
I didn't agree with them :P My sister-in-law is a stupid *** to begin with, but if my brother died and she started dating 2 months later, we'd have words.
that's not a very nice thing to say about your family in law >_>
You don't know my family in law. I despise every single one of them.
As for idiot, he wanted a tv. Now, he left here years ago. Naturally, the TV is long gone. It was a sears model, doesn't work, so I tossed it.
So he decided he would help himself to my TVs, at which point I lost it, then found out he was being a jackass because he was drunk and possibly high. One of his friends came in, and I thought I might be in a bit of trouble, but his friend was one of my friends, and he took ex out and apologized for his stupidity. Apparently ex told him he was just stopping in to say hi which he always does (haven't seen him in years) and to see the kitties.
My sister-in-law is a stupid *** to begin with, but if my brother died and she started dating 2 months later, we'd have words.
Yah that I can understand lol, and sad part is the wife even tried talking to the sister to explain things, and to share her side. Seems the sister just stuck in a hateful mode and has been raging on his page as well as at others that are friends with her. I personally felt it was a bit soon, it hurt because part me thought "she got over him that quick", but I realized in her position, you'll never be over someone you love. 10 years from now you'll still miss them. So why spend rest your life alone. I guess though a normal waiting period would be year? I dunno as I've never dealt with this before.
Well, I dislike her to begin with, so it's sort of biased. I just can't imagine being ready to date 2 months after. It's hard to quantify love in terms of grieving time, but 2 months just seems short.
Ramuh.Sagittario said:
Sylph.Spency said:
Ramuh.Sagittario said:
Sylph.Spency said:
I didn't agree with them :P My sister-in-law is a stupid *** to begin with, but if my brother died and she started dating 2 months later, we'd have words.
that's not a very nice thing to say about your family in law >_>
You don't know my family in law. I despise every single one of them.
Edit: As of 2010-10-05 14:48:06 CST, Ni reached 10,000 pages.
Since we all can't be on the same linkshell in game, this can be our cross server linkshell thread.
Like most linkshells, it can be pretty dead at times. Other times it's full of intense conversations about either rl, gear, goals, pokemon or anything else you want to contribute.
We can cover any sort of topic at all, within reason of the forum rules. No real main topic, just a bunch of FFXIAH friends/people coming on and discussing random things.
Yeah Chuu. Bringing you up to speed, Ludoggy is the LS pedophile. I'm the fountain of random and useless knowledge that makes you go "Hrm" with the occasional side of "holy shit he said what?"
Kungfu is the LS nutjob, spouting super random things that are usually sexist, until Savvy or Alyria comes into the room. Then he's a classic case of sexual harrassment. Rumaha is also true to the second part; we're wondering about his sexuality though.
Daj is Ludoggy's gay lover. Not much else is known about this Asuran. Tairo is kinda new, but since is a female and Alyria's lesbian lover, she fit right in real quick.
Celene(F) and Rowland(M) are more of the shyer members, but often say things that are witty, have a good pun and sometimes cause three page discussions. Celene hates when people hit on her. It doesn't stop them from trying.
Krizz is just social and likes to kill time here during work Tbest is about the same, except tends to be a douche to guys and affectionate toward girls.
Alyria is the most social female, gets groped a lot without provoking it by others, and Tairo ends up stabbing people for it. Cai is just a barrel of lols, I might be gay for him. If I wasn't straight.
Not sure about Citag, s/he's new. Kiriyu is just an in-out kinda person. Says one thing every three days that every guy makes a big fuss over. Ludoggy gets really defensive since she's asian and underage (might be 18 now).
Artem is the wayward soul that makes you ponder the meaning of life by constantly reminding us life can suck. But he deals, and so do we. About the same for Savannah, except people are more "AWH!" to her because of a vagina involved.
Dasva is the ex military man (as is Krizz but this doesn't apply to him) who hates the world and plots a way to destroy most of it.
Number2 is kinda like a mix between Cai and I; never bashes, likes to laugh and has odd avatars. His current suits a lot of the convos this LS gets into. Barti is most well known for his moustache. He gives mousatche rides for a fee. I'm missing a few people but whatever. CARRY ON!
Luelle Smells.
Roster of FFXIAH Ni (as of April 1st, 2010 Pocoyo avatar craze)
Happy b-day ls.
Heres my lame gift to AHLS, since Row is lame and took away the OP, I made my own!
Haseyo/Bignose: He's got a bigass nose, Leader of the RL avi revloution or some junk no one gives a crap about...crazy about his asian pop/rock bands and is a closet pedo. AKA LAME
Dameshi: wont level his sam sub and is a lolblu, LAME
Citag: Doesnt put out, Really lame
Dasva: Uses Chu as a cover up for his desire for me greased up and naked on his bed, Lame.
Rydiya/Bra+Panties: Secret lesbien, doesnt wear bra+panties, like to knit and other old people stuff (bingo)
Pikachu/Chu: Hi Chu, I love chu
Kryee/Socks: Noms on socks, wears the sam red pair everyday and frequently sniffs her arm pits.
Cheyne: Domo origoto, Mr Roboto...I think he's gay.
Urial: SOCCER IS LAME AND YOU'RE LAME.
Thundars: LOLCANADIAN
Spence: LOLFRENCHCANADIAN
Enterius/ghost: He's a ghost...he'll say something witty to me later.
Ixe: Ducky face and cant seem to get a straw in her mouth (can get other things in there though)
Mairah: She cool...lame
Bart: Full times OPO-OPO, free mustache rides otherwise LAME
Sav/Mango: Field trips, yay!
Aly/thatgreenmodthatwillbanmeifIsayanythingbad: *tapes*
Woody: You're not Italian...no tea for you.
Sectum: My apprentice...loves asian girls, loves to cook...he's awesome. put me in a story where I wasnt a pedo and that'd cool
Rum:STOP RAIDING MY BASEMENT AND TAKING AWAY MY GIRLS GAWD. Long Islander...lame
Valencea:Wont tell me the color of her undies, you lost the bet...no we cant get married...NO MEANS NO
Kojo:Open pedo...he likes scat, ewww
Tohsou: I think he's a pedo with a girlfriend as cover up, lame.
Kiriyu/strawberry: Lurk Less post moar! I see you what you are doing!
Krizz: Mohawk guy #1
Triet: Mohawk guy #1...wait
Bloodbathboy: The Hulk
Kungfuhustle: AH%DUE%$JNSRGHSRHHEYHEHSA Y%HEDHGSR EAT AHUYY DONKEY NUTS
Celene: Quit...Canadian...who the hell quits?
Tbest: MIA
Eternaltriumph: Where the hell has he been? Is he gone cause he got pussywhipped or something? Whatever...
#2: GOD...I miss him /cry
Luelle/otherlu: The Other Lu.
Zekky: Quit, kicking ass, raped me :\
Krystale/Girlwithpiercing: Magnets stick to her, Toke Canadian, hawt...she's 15 right?
Marzbarz: NINJA
Rowland: All your Pocoyo are belong to...him
Weewoo/Tool: He liked Asura and wont admit it.
Miemo: Has a mithra avi c.c
Kalyna: is a girl right? right? oh...lame
Gimmeurselables: TOO MUCH BOUNCE...TOO BIG, EWWWW
Sagittario: Lame elf whu runs around in a diaper subligar
Ludoggy: Faggot
Edit: The Family Ni Tree
Luelle's (And Citag's too!) birthday present
[h1]H1[/h1]
[h2]H2[/h2]
[h3]H3[/h3]
[figlet]Figlet[/figlet]
[spoiler="Custom spoiler!"][h1]Yay[/h1][/spoiler]
[soundcloud]http://soundcloud.com/matas/hobnotropic[/soundcloud]
Will try to get to more stuff when I can.
Disclaimer: Your Feelings May Get Hurt In Your Stay Here.
