Change Cursor Arrow

How can I change my cursor arrow cause I always see this really cool blue one in youtube videos while I'm stuck with the dinky gold one. Can someone enlighten me to what keyboard command I would have to type to get it to change

I'm guessing you're seeing one of the UI mods. It's not a standard option and requires replacing some folders.

They are coming out with some official changes soonish, if you'd rather wait for that.

Most likely this is what they were using: XI View V2.0

It replaces a lot of icons besides the cursor however, which you may or may not want (though many people prefer the updated ones-- check the examples to see if you agree). As mentioned above, it will require replacing some folders, but it's not too complicated if you follow the instructions. If you want to isolate and only replace the cursor, someone in the linked thread might be able to help you (you'll need the exact DAT number and folder of the cursor which I don't know).