was asked to go work at the shop for a bit and i missed stuff :(
I believe you cant feel the same for 2 different people, even if you manage to have feelings toward someone it wont be the same kind, as for that person will appeal differently to you, hence attraction will occur.
one thing for sure, Love is a rocky road that will hurt and make you bleed, but it can also be a really cool and awesome experience, besides the sex =P
as for relationships (a whooping total of 1), im rather inexperienced at that, so I dont know/can give much advice regarding it, but to maintain it, its not about giving a 50%/50% thing on each side, its about making sacrifices to each other and giving 100%/100%.