What Kind Of Guy/girl Do U Like?
what kind of guy/girl do u like?
I'll be seeing her tonight. You'll have to tell me what to say through my phone!
zahrah said:
Ramuh.Urial said:
zahrah said:
Ramuh.Urial said:
zahrah said:
Do you dare alter mine, Francis?
Anne 1507(one of two disputed birthdays)
Francis 1511
lmao
Spooky!
You really are anne!
Fairy.Spence said:
I'll be seeing her tonight. You'll have to tell me what to say through my phone!
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
Fairy.Spence said:
I'll be seeing her tonight. You'll have to tell me what to say through my phone!
Ragnarok.Ashman said:
Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Ragnarok.Ashman said:
Whatever helps you sleep at night.
I doubt it's as shallow as half of this thread. I highly doubt it's as shallow as using this thread to fill your girl-on-the-internet-syndrome requirements with dozens of guys you don't know at all. It was also said in a light-hearted manner as a quasi-joke (I understand context doesn't translate to text).
That being said, I take my word and being honest more serious than a random sexual encounter to "scratch a temporary itch". Relationships are built on trust, if you don't have trust for each other then I would say you have a mighty "shallow" relationship. That's just my opinion obviously, but then again this thread was a thread asking what people value in finding someone.
/feels ashamed
Maybe we should tone it down a bit.
Ramuh.Laffter said:
Fairy.Spence said:
I'll be seeing her tonight. You'll have to tell me what to say through my phone!
It's not a date, there are a bunch of us going. I wouldn't touch my phone on a date unless it was to call a cab or something.
Ramuh.Urial said:
zahrah said:
Ramuh.Urial said:
zahrah said:
Ramuh.Urial said:
zahrah said:
Do you dare alter mine, Francis?
Anne 1507(one of two disputed birthdays)
Francis 1511
lmao
Spooky!
You really are anne!
Hush, you!
Ashman is just jealous. :|
Ramuh.Laffter said:
Ashman is just jealous. :|
Ashman is very nice. I'll even admit to crossing the line a couple of times on here, and in retrospect, I do feel somewhat bad.
I don't feel bad, just embarassed because some of these people know what I look like. :P
Fenrir.Saeki said:
Odin.Zicdeh said:
But the act of being deceitful, intentionally or not, is what turns it into a deplorable act. Mostly because, if you resort to that, it means you were too weak to even try to fix it.
If I was dating someone who I knew had succumbed to infidelity, I can say there wouldn't be an immediate, mutual respect. It may build over time, but knowing something like that would color my initial disposition a certain way, and I just can't help that.
In my opinion it just means that the person in question did not have the balls to communicate with their partner to say that they were unhappy. It's always easier to lie than confront someone with a harsh truth.
I know that personally, I would always prefer to be told the truth. Sure it would hurt, but if the reason was legitimate and it was brought up in a respectful manner, I would never get angry.
At least for me, either way you twist it, cheating shows weakness of character. Try to communicate and fix it first. Or break it. But don't go behind my back letting me believe it's all fine and good, that's just plain disrespectful.
hiding my llama drama in a spoiler
There's nothing bad about having an open discussion about sex. It just means being comfortable with it, which is a good thing. If someone gets a *** out of it, or takes some flirt-joke too seriously than it's their problem.
zahrah said:
Ramuh.Laffter said:
Ashman is just jealous. :|
Ashman is very nice. I'll even admit to crossing the line a couple of times on here, and in retrospect, I do feel somewhat bad.
Anything with a hole and is breathing. Actually, breathing isn't a necessity, just warm to the touch. Ok, cold works too....just give me a hole and away I go.
What....too soon??
Phoenix.Sehachan said:
There's nothing bad about having an open discussion about sex. It just means being comfortable with it, which is a good thing. If someone gets a *** out of it, or takes some flirt-joke too seriously than it's their problem.
Yeah, that happened to me irl about a week ago.
Phoenix.Sehachan said:
There's nothing bad about having an open discussion about sex. It just means being comfortable with it, which is a good thing. If someone gets a *** out of it, or takes some flirt-joke too seriously than it's their problem.
Well back reading was interesting.
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Phoenix.Sehachan said:
There's nothing bad about having an open discussion about sex. It just means being comfortable with it, which is a good thing. If someone gets a *** out of it, or takes some flirt-joke too seriously than it's their problem.
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
Fairy.Spence said:
Ramuh.Laffter said:
Fairy.Spence said:
I'll be seeing her tonight. You'll have to tell me what to say through my phone!
It's not a date, there are a bunch of us going. I wouldn't touch my phone on a date unless it was to call a cab or something.
Boston Pizza. It's a weekly thing with some friends and I
Fairy.Spence said:
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
Fairy.Spence said:
Ramuh.Laffter said:
Fairy.Spence said:
I'll be seeing her tonight. You'll have to tell me what to say through my phone!
It's not a date, there are a bunch of us going. I wouldn't touch my phone on a date unless it was to call a cab or something.
Boston Pizza. It's a weekly thing with some friends and I
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
Odin.Zicdeh said:
If I was dating someone who I knew had succumbed to infidelity, I can say there wouldn't be an immediate, mutual respect. It may build over time, but knowing something like that would color my initial disposition a certain way, and I just can't help that.
You do have some valid points Zicdeh I just think cheating is often much more complicated than people who've been cheated on claim (or outside parties)
When you refer to hypothetical situations it can go either way when you are making a generalization like that :P
I saw a quote by Johnny Depp ..lemme find it.
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Fairy.Spence said:
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
Fairy.Spence said:
Ramuh.Laffter said:
Fairy.Spence said:
I'll be seeing her tonight. You'll have to tell me what to say through my phone!
It's not a date, there are a bunch of us going. I wouldn't touch my phone on a date unless it was to call a cab or something.
Boston Pizza. It's a weekly thing with some friends and I
Go nuts, it's what my nephew calls me.
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
I hope you never fall in love with 2 women simultaneously.
Those times have been the most confusing and worrisome times in my life.
I'ma call Spence S-Pence.
Fairy.Spence said:
Go nuts, it's what my nephew calls me.
@Vinvv, Just to say, it's no drama llama! Just getting our opinions out :P I don't mean any disrespect anyways lol.
I don't really agree with that (I'm a girl btw so obviously I substitute "girl" with "guy" XD). The problem is that often, you don't know whether that person is prone to cheat or not.
They could appear very stable and loyal. There's a lot of really good liars out there, too. Usually you don't know til it happens to you. Personally, even if I did know that they cheated before, I would be extremely reluctant to even think of dating them.
Maybe it was some "getting back at you" mentality she had. I dunno, lol. Good thing you got rid of her by the sounds of it :P
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
They could appear very stable and loyal. There's a lot of really good liars out there, too. Usually you don't know til it happens to you. Personally, even if I did know that they cheated before, I would be extremely reluctant to even think of dating them.
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I've had girls do exactly that because I was a bit more shallow back in the day...but the weird thing is I've had a girl harass ME after she cheated for a few weeks after I told her she was a liar and I didn't want to have anything to do with it.
It wasn't like good harassment it was more like her trying to ***-talk me the whole time...it was weird.
It wasn't like good harassment it was more like her trying to ***-talk me the whole time...it was weird.
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
Odin.Zicdeh said:
If I was dating someone who I knew had succumbed to infidelity, I can say there wouldn't be an immediate, mutual respect. It may build over time, but knowing something like that would color my initial disposition a certain way, and I just can't help that.
You do have some valid points Zicdeh I just think cheating is often much more complicated than people who've been cheated on claim (or outside parties)
When you refer to hypothetical situations it can go either way when you are making a generalization like that :P
Because I very rarely stumble upon the simple cases that seems to be considered the kind referred to here
That's the duality of it.
Relationships aren't really all that complicated at all, it just depends how you look at it and where you are in the relationship.
Looking in from the outside makes it a lot easier, but with some people it's complicated because it contains complicated people, yes?
problems are still the same the complications are the individuals more than anything.
Here's the Johnny Depp quote referencing your whole fall in love with two people deal:
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If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldn’t have fallen for the second.
Johnny Depp
Johnny Depp
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