Ahh, I think its all about timing and presentation. Timing meaning, being at the right place, and the right time. Presentation, are you who you say you are? are you real or a phoney... well you know.
All I did, was be myself, go and have a great time <---(Women love this stuff)
Why go and pretend who your not? Act like that, and I'll be waving good bye to you, when I walk out with a woman in tow, or a telephone #.
I don't need to now... happily married guy here..with a beautiful child.
Couldn't be more happier! Case closed.