Romantically Frustrated?

wanna do it

What else is there to do? You like them in a friendly way but don't want to take it further for whatever reason. Most guys will just unfriend someone who shoots them down.

So much pres- Ok.

I don't! I keep trying! Or after 1-6 years or so just accept being friends and stop trying lol.

I had a female friend who was really close to me completely shut me out of her life because I wouldn't have sex with her and turned her down for like, 3 months. So, it happens though =\

Basically, priorities. Some people want a close emotional connection, others want in your pants. Most people fall somewhere in the middle. Guys tend to lean more towards the "in your pants" side of this, especially at a young age. If she's not down to ***, he's not gonna stick around.

Ouch!

I had a friend turn me down because our friendship was so dear to her, we now say hi or something on FB once in a blue moon.

okay but i'm not shavin' my chest

i'll put saran wrap over it ok? ok

Yea, nothing like driving a few hours and spending a bunch of excessive money to see her graduation only to hear her say she hates me and never wants to see me again.

Christ, we were friends for like, 5 years.

Anyway, no more of this. Old wounds I rather not reopen right now lol.

Fiiiiiine, but we're poking holes at the nipples so I can play with them.

I can understand not wanting to communicate much after having been turned down, or turning someone down, due to awkwardness. But it's something you should be able to get over in time.

see compromise works guys

Had to find it, this seems appropriate.

xkcd makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside

lol Perfect example in that comic.

I actually had a friend who recently came to me about his relationship. He felt like his girlfriend didn't care for him/didn't want to be around him/not enough sex/most other things you can think of like this. After a week or so he decided to end their rather lengthy relationship because when he tried to talk to her about it, she shrugged him off and didn't take him seriously.

After that happened he tried pretty hard to cling to me and I really just wasn't having it. I knew better. "You'd be the perfect girlfriend, why can't we try it out?" etcetc. Even though we are pretty compatible, there was no way I was getting into that mess.

Good thing I didn't, he got back with her 2 weeks later. Luckily though, he's not the type of guy to give up on friendship. Sucks that it happens, but it's pretty common. But using(or trying to) a friend for your rebound is such a bad idea, lol.

(oops long post, blahblah)

http://images.bluegartr.com/bucket/gallery/f08aaccfcc5947215d483ab2f1f8ae3f.jpg

url'd because it contains naughty language

Hahahaha!!!

/sigh
That's how I go into any situation where I am going to meet a girl. Assume the worst so when it happens I'm not shocked and if it doesn't then I lucked out!

Really scary how skewed things are in the dating world. Granted it's not always like that, but frighteningly accurate probably 80%+ of the time.

i just love not being confident lol

It's obviously exaggerated (especially on the boring part, since a boring girl would still be unattractive; being boring is a very negative trait no matter how you look at it) but on the whole it is true.

lol a guy made a thread of his romantic frustrations on BG and I guess he was being a dumb *** about the situation or w/e (lol and on an anon account) so 5 pages later one of the mods verifies his IP and changes his anon account to his regular one, lmao

That's so much win. >___>;

Link tiger!

Poor guy, lolol. :3

http://www.bluegartr.com/threads/105480-Dating-a-girl-that-has-never-had-a-boyfriend

and all the threads he's made on this anon account

http://www.bluegartr.com/search.php?searchid=621685

men just don't give a ***D: it's a blessing and a curse ;-;

i don't have to read through those 83 pages to know dense won the thread on post #6

*prepares the popcorn*