Carbuncle.Skulloneix said: »
Ina, got anything disturbing to read???
Edit: God damn it

Idk how true all that is, it amused me though
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Carbuncle.Skulloneix said: » Ina, got anything disturbing to read??? Edit: God damn it ![]() Idk how true all that is, it amused me though He has given me a nightmare or two.
rabble rabble stupid monday stupid work
-walks by rambling- Asura.Ina said: » Idk how true all that is, it amused me though Well ok, time to stalk the mail and UPS guy. I have goodies I am waiting for.
/hugs a corner of the thread and falls asleep
I need some advice/help...
There's this girl I really like, but she just got a divorce last month. She says shes not ready to date anytime soon, but the affection she showed me even before her divorce was finalized told me otherwise. I really like her, shes an amazing woman, but I dont want to push her away by being too...up front about how I feel about her. I mean she knows I like her, and she's told me she liked me before, but nothing more's really happened. What do? Just wait? Or would it be okay to like, do little things to show her I care? -would have posted this in the relationship advice thread josi made, but couldnt find it- How long was she married?
Shiva.Arana said: » How long was she married? I'm not entirely sure, as she's never said. I know she lived with the guy for quite some time though. Met him once, not really a nice guy. When a relationship ends people tend to be vulnerable, and if you step in now it may be like taking advantage of this. But if you don't you may end up watching someone else do it. It's really tough to say when's the right moment to go on the line after such things.
I suppose this would depend why she left him. On one hand he could have been super controlling and she got out to find her self alone and free. I would give her the time to do this.
On the other hand if she's the type to rely on men then she'll need another guy to fill the gap. However this guy could very well be used for nothing more than a band aid. Not saying don't try just beware. Shiva.Arana said: » I suppose this would depend why she left him. On one hand he could have been super controlling and she got out to find her self alone and free. I would give her the time to do this. On the other hand if she's the type to rely on men then she'll need another guy to fill the gap. However this guy could very well be used for nothing more than a band aid. Not saying don't try just beware. He was definitely the controlling type. Thats very helpful, thanks. You too, Seha. This is the first girl I've -really- liked in a -very- long time. I dont want to lose my chance, ya know? Odin.Headstrong said: » /hugs a corner of the thread and falls asleep Bismarck.Faelar said: » What do? Just wait? Or would it be okay to like, do little things to show her I care? Bismarck.Leonkasai said: » Ooooh, what goodies? :3 Valefor.Sehachan said: » When a relationship ends people tend to be vulnerable, and if you step in now it may be like taking advantage of this. But if you don't you may end up watching someone else do it. It's really tough to say when's the right moment to go on the line after such things. I suppose tying her to railroad tracks is out of the question....
Shiva.Nikolce said: » I suppose tying her to railroad tracks is out of the question.... Shiva.Nikolce said: » I suppose tying her to railroad tracks is out of the question.... I dont want to kill her lol.
I want to love her! ._. Anyway, as much as being careful is good, you also need to be selfish and take risks in life.
Wait until you think it's necessary, but put your needs first: she can be happy without you or she can be happy with you. /risks a subligar
Also, to be successful with women don't ever do what Sagi does.
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