Random Thoughts.....What Are You Thinking?

Oh! God! I LOVE that one too! I want a damn pug! If anything, just for the ridiculous face! How can you not look at that and smile?

The cosplay thing would have been a little more enticing or I guess maybe meaningful if she hadn't used it as a way to try and tip an argument. She was pretty much like "Chill out, calm down, okay if you don't calm down I am not going to buy this to wear for you..."

Having made my own costumes and done cosplay before it just makes me mad when people cosplay things just for sex appeal (ex. Jessica Nigri), and to think that someone worked hard to make a Yoko costume and that it would just be used as basically a sex toy sets me off.

I'll cosplay as Yoko for you.

What are the positive sides to her? I haven't really seen you mention anything you do like about her, and that's disconcerting. If you really only keep seeing stuff that makes you not care so much for the relationship, that's a big ol flag.

yeah they are so cute :P I leave my screen locked when I walk away to do stuff and i always hear my sister laughing at it lol

ye, thats why I suggest turning it into something can enjoy and gain more mojo back and find someone more permanent, if thats what he really wants. That's all.

Lil, how long did you know her before you two started dating?

Sigh, all these pugs n no ladysin to enjoy them =/

Less

and more

We've been in the same classes for like 2 years but I really didn't know anything about her until pretty much the day before we went out.

I cant find a male Yoko cosplay picture so here lol

Some people are a bit too free spirited and lack the honesty to live that life without hurting others. It's one thing to throw yourself at guys, it's another to get involved with them and not being honest about how you really are.

If you want to live that kind of life then you should be open and honest with the people you're about to get involved with. What might be a fun fling for you might hurt them pretty bad for days/weeks/months depending on the person.

I can't help but to look down on that kind of life style, too much risk of hurting others. I hate hurting people, whatever the reason it is, I can't stand it and the guilt overwhelms me. If both partners are okay with a fling then by all means, but to hook up with someone you've just met without telling them anything about you or the sort will just lead to you hurting them eventually.

That's just my opinion anyways~

I understand what you were saying... what I was saying is there's quite a few people out there that can't just turn their feelings off and just have something physical...

come here lilica I will give you hugs

Being open and honest about what you want from the relationship goes both ways though.

Just sounds like you definitely want 2 totally different things. I'm all for making things work if you want it, but when the differences are that big... idk, I'd let her go if it were me.

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See what you've made me do?!

I would take the dog over that

Open and honest is the best way when your thinking about both parties for sure...

In this case though I mean it seems like she's being fairly open with him... Idk the details but he pretty much said they've only known eachother for 5 or 6 days beyond just being in the same classes... for some it's fairly tough to be open about certain fetishes or other things they're embarassed of (for fear of driving someone away and such)... in this case though she seemed to come out and talk about this in the open pretty quickly... I don't really get the feeling that they had a heartfealt conversation about where this puts them or how important it is to the relationship but it doesn't seem like she's hiding much...

thats why you get no hugs

I can't tell which you are referring to.

The dude in the spoiler obviously

Hmmm...How old is she?

Because if she's in her early twenties, I wouldn't be the one to shove the "***" label onto her. That's just a transitional time for everyone, and most people get a little ballsy or mischievous in one way or another at that point. Whether it's stunts, booze, drugs, sex, etc. That's the first time in your life that you really feel unrestrained and invincible. There are good and bad consequences though.

/shrug

I still <3 you chuuuuu

/heads home crying

Just happened to hear this on Pandora, like a sound clip at the end of a hip hop track:

"She insists she's in love with me - whatever that is. What she means is she prefers the senseless pain we inflict on each other to the pain we would otherwise inflict on ourselves. But I'm not afraid of that solitary pain. In fact, if I don't strip myself of all this clatter and clutter and ridiculous ritual, I shall go out of my *** mind."

Pandora understands my feels *brofist Pandora*

"If all else fails, put it in her butt."

I told my fiance about your issue (he had a similar one before he met me) and that's the response I got. I don't think he listened very well.

/highfives the galka!

Not really sure if this is appropriate to post after the butt comment but Drac has me craving Chocolate fudge ; ;

errr, yea I meant both sorry.