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Random Thoughts.....What are you thinking?
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-04-03 02:07:11
zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: i wish i could read peoples minds. then i could understand what im doing wrong .-.
Huh? Looks like you're doing everything right to me, Chuuuuu. apparently not lol how a date just randomly stops talking to me after i thought everything was good lol
So, was this someone you met from that site you're in? Has it just been one date? How long since the date? it was 2 dates. then on tue promised to call and didnt and then hasnt spoken to me since lol .-.
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By Valefor.Slipispsycho 2011-04-03 02:07:48
Asura.Chuuuuu said: zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: i wish i could read peoples minds. then i could understand what im doing wrong .-.
Huh? Looks like you're doing everything right to me, Chuuuuu. apparently not lol how a date just randomly stops talking to me after i thought everything was good lol
So, was this someone you met from that site you're in? Has it just been one date? How long since the date? it was 2 dates. then on tue promised to call and didnt and then hasnt spoken to me since lol .-. Maybe she's playing hard to get?
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-04-03 02:08:06
Valefor.Slipispsycho said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: i wish i could read peoples minds. then i could understand what im doing wrong .-.
Huh? Looks like you're doing everything right to me, Chuuuuu. apparently not lol how a date just randomly stops talking to me after i thought everything was good lol
So, was this someone you met from that site you're in? Has it just been one date? How long since the date? it was 2 dates. then on tue promised to call and didnt and then hasnt spoken to me since lol .-. Maybe she's playing hard to get? thats my job. i dont text first >o /waits and its a guy and im the girl! lol
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By Asura.Ludoggy 2011-04-03 02:09:25
Something related to cheezeits.
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-04-03 02:09:50
Asura.Ludoggy said: Something related to cheezeits. haha ludie <3
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By Valefor.Slipispsycho 2011-04-03 02:10:46
Oh my bad.. >.>
Also that is typical guy ***, it's how a lot of them operate, so they don't seem desperate. If he is doing it becuase of that, you can rest assured he wants to call/text but is just doing it becuase he doesn't want to seem desperate or *** up his chances by seeming clingy.
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-04-03 02:12:07
Valefor.Slipispsycho said: Oh my bad.. >.>
Also that is typical guy ***, it's how a lot of them operate, so they don't seem desperate. If he is doing it becuase of that, you can rest assured he wants to call/text but is just doing it becuase he doesn't want to seem desperate or *** up his chances by seeming clingy. i dont understand lol i really like clingy bfs lol i must be weird :s he better not be doing that lol i assumed he just lost interest lol
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By Valefor.Slipispsycho 2011-04-03 02:13:48
Asura.Chuuuuu said: Valefor.Slipispsycho said: Oh my bad.. >.>
Also that is typical guy ***, it's how a lot of them operate, so they don't seem desperate. If he is doing it becuase of that, you can rest assured he wants to call/text but is just doing it becuase he doesn't want to seem desperate or *** up his chances by seeming clingy. i dont understand lol i really like clingy bfs lol i must be weird :s he better not be doing that lol i assumed he just lost interest lol Men and women are completely different, and they treat each other how they would want to be treated, a girl will be clingy/highly involved because generally that's what they want, and a guy will do everything to not appear clingy, because generally clingy girls bother the ***out of us. <_<;;
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By Cerberus.Irohuro 2011-04-03 02:14:41
but see, he probably doesnt know that, so he thinks you wouldnt be attracted if he seemed clingy, so he doesnt want to mess up his chances by doing things that he thinks would mess up his chances
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By Cerberus.Irohuro 2011-04-03 02:15:05
Valefor.Slipispsycho said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: Valefor.Slipispsycho said: Oh my bad.. >.>
Also that is typical guy ***, it's how a lot of them operate, so they don't seem desperate. If he is doing it becuase of that, you can rest assured he wants to call/text but is just doing it becuase he doesn't want to seem desperate or *** up his chances by seeming clingy. i dont understand lol i really like clingy bfs lol i must be weird :s he better not be doing that lol i assumed he just lost interest lol Men and women are completely different, and they treat each other how they would want to be treated, a girl will be clingy/highly involved because generally that's what they want, and a guy will do everything to not appear clingy, because generally clingy girls bother the ***out of us. <_<;;
also this
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-04-03 02:15:22
Valefor.Slipispsycho said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: Valefor.Slipispsycho said: Oh my bad.. >.>
Also that is typical guy ***, it's how a lot of them operate, so they don't seem desperate. If he is doing it becuase of that, you can rest assured he wants to call/text but is just doing it becuase he doesn't want to seem desperate or *** up his chances by seeming clingy. i dont understand lol i really like clingy bfs lol i must be weird :s he better not be doing that lol i assumed he just lost interest lol Men and women are completely different, and they treat each other how they would want to be treated, a girl will be clingy/highly involved because generally that's what they want, and a guy will do everything to not appear clingy, because generally clingy girls bother the ***out of us. <_<;; but i like talking lots ;; Cerberus.Irohuro said: but see, he probably doesnt know that, so he thinks you wouldnt be attracted if he seemed clingy, so he doesnt want to mess up his chances by doing things that he thinks would mess up his chances this is why i dont wanna date lol so much annoying stuff xD
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By Cerberus.Irohuro 2011-04-03 02:17:32
its really pretty simple once you learn the basics, whereas girls are like calculus IX
not that i have interest.. >.>
but i still understand the guys point of view
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By Valefor.Slipispsycho 2011-04-03 02:17:53
I'd say text him, if he is just doing what I think he's doing, then you initiating contact would be a signal to him that it's okay to call/text.
By zahrah 2011-04-03 02:18:13
Asura.Chuuuuu said: zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: i wish i could read peoples minds. then i could understand what im doing wrong .-.
Huh? Looks like you're doing everything right to me, Chuuuuu. apparently not lol how a date just randomly stops talking to me after i thought everything was good lol
So, was this someone you met from that site you're in? Has it just been one date? How long since the date? it was 2 dates. then on tue promised to call and didnt and then hasnt spoken to me since lol .-.
Don't call him back. Give it a little time. If he doesn't call in whatever time you allot him, cut him loose! There's always plenty on other boys!
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-04-03 02:19:22
lol see girls always tell me nooo dont u will seem desperate lol and now u guys are telling me to text him? lol
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By Cerberus.Irohuro 2011-04-03 02:20:00
yep, 2 different planets
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-04-03 02:20:21
SOO CONFUSING /RAGEQUIT
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-04-03 02:20:52
zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: i wish i could read peoples minds. then i could understand what im doing wrong .-. Huh? Looks like you're doing everything right to me, Chuuuuu. apparently not lol how a date just randomly stops talking to me after i thought everything was good lol So, was this someone you met from that site you're in? Has it just been one date? How long since the date? it was 2 dates. then on tue promised to call and didnt and then hasnt spoken to me since lol .-. Don't call him back. Give it a little time. If he doesn't call in whatever time you allot him, cut him loose! There's always plenty on other boys! Why does he have to be the one to call huh?
Sometimes a guy likes to know she is really interested and would try to contact on her own. If it's always one person doing it you can start to seem like a bother...
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By Valefor.Slipispsycho 2011-04-03 02:22:29
Asura.Chuuuuu said: SOO CONFUSING /RAGEQUIT Trust the men who are telling you to call/text (but make it casual, none of this "why didn't you call" *** <_<;;) as we have the insider information seeing as we're males..
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By Cerberus.Irohuro 2011-04-03 02:24:09
Valefor.Slipispsycho said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: SOO CONFUSING /RAGEQUIT Trust the men who are telling you to call/text (but make it casual, none of this "why didn't you call" *** <_<;;) as we have the insider information seeing as we're males..
yea, just be like "hey sup?" chit chat, and maybe even invite him on a date
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-04-03 02:25:04
noooo he would have asked me if he wanted to :< if someone wants to talk to me they text me first.
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By Bahamut.Dasva 2011-04-03 02:27:05
Asura.Chuuuuu said: noooo he would have asked me if he wanted to :< if someone wants to talk to me they text me first. And then he thinks the same thing and hey look no one talks to anyone.
By zahrah 2011-04-03 02:27:08
Bahamut.Dasva said: zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: zahrah said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: i wish i could read peoples minds. then i could understand what im doing wrong .-. Huh? Looks like you're doing everything right to me, Chuuuuu. apparently not lol how a date just randomly stops talking to me after i thought everything was good lol So, was this someone you met from that site you're in? Has it just been one date? How long since the date? it was 2 dates. then on tue promised to call and didnt and then hasnt spoken to me since lol .-. Don't call him back. Give it a little time. If he doesn't call in whatever time you allot him, cut him loose! There's always plenty on other boys! Why does he have to be the one to call huh?
Sometimes a guy likes to know she is really interested and would try to contact on her own. If it's always one person doing it you can start to seem like a bother...
Okay...Good point, but didn't she say she already tried contacting him? Just don't over-do it.
Valefor.Slipispsycho said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: SOO CONFUSING /RAGEQUIT Trust the men who are telling you to call/text (but make it casual, none of this "why didn't you call" *** <_<;;) as we have the insider information seeing as we're males..
^^^This is a good solution. What were his interests? You can call about that.
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-04-03 02:28:57
Bahamut.Dasva said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: noooo he would have asked me if he wanted to :< if someone wants to talk to me they text me first. And then he thinks the same thing and hey look no one talks to anyone. story of my life. zahrah said:
Okay...Good point, but didn't she say she already tried contacting him? Just don't over-do it.
i texted him on sunday first and he didnt reply so i figured i shouldnt text first anymore
By zahrah 2011-04-03 02:33:54
Asura.Chuuuuu said: Bahamut.Dasva said: Asura.Chuuuuu said: noooo he would have asked me if he wanted to :< if someone wants to talk to me they text me first. And then he thinks the same thing and hey look no one talks to anyone. story of my life. zahrah said:
Okay...Good point, but didn't she say she already tried contacting him? Just don't over-do it.
i texted him on sunday first and he didnt reply so i figured i shouldnt text first anymore
Hmmm....
/scratches head
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By Asura.Chuuuuu 2011-04-03 02:35:58
see its confusing lol how about i just do nothing! :D
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By Cerberus.Irohuro 2011-04-03 02:36:41
well now you have to unexpectedly show up at his house, and be like, "oh, i was in the neighborhood..."
but seriously, maybe he missed it, i know that i sometimes miss texts, or maybe he saw it but was busy atm, and planned to reply later, but forgot, mysterious cosmic force knows that i'm that way too
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By Asura.Perrymason 2011-04-03 02:38:09
Pie...
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By Cerberus.Irohuro 2011-04-03 02:39:40
as an aside, i really like this avatar over the other ones i've had recently
though i wouldnt mind having a gif...
By zahrah 2011-04-03 02:40:13
One more text shouldn't hurt. I think since you've waited a week you won't come off needy.
What were his interests?
Pondering at the moment. Maybe the boys should throw in a little more.
This is a thread that I found on another website I post at. It can be really really interesting. I thought it deserved a place here.
Post your random thoughts for the day here, or anything else that intrigues you.
For starters, is it possible to give constructive critism to someone who doesn't have a neck? I totally just walked by a girl who didn't. Someone isn't getting a necklace for Valentines day!
And who decided black and white can't be colors? I want to say a racist. I really do.
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