Leviathan.Angelskiss said:
That is not chance, chance would be getting shot at a convience store because you randomly have a craving for a candy bar. One partner ACTIVELY chose to cheat/leave. There is a choice , a thought process that goes on when you say, hey this naked chick over here isn't my GF but I think I shall sexeh time her anyways.
Choice creates chance. Everyday you make the choice to get up and do whatever it is that you do. Puting yourself anywhere in the world is a choice. What happens is chance. Being shot in the convience store is chance. The gunman could of shot someone else. Being cheated on is chance. You're just as likely to get a partner who will cheat on you as you are to find one who will not. The reasons/situations are always different, but there is no way to be certain of someone else's choices. I.E. It's chance.