Bismarck.Josiahfk said: »
Asura.Floppyseconds said: »
Bismarck.Josiahfk said: »
Inversely I still keep some of the crap from mine, but to remind me to never forget the truth of what happened and how much I have changed and continue to.
I would have honestly given them all the things I own if she came to get that stuff.
You know I can't get rid of it. In fact they can be comforting. Her robe is on me as a sash right now. I find if I am drunk I wake up on the floor with it as a blanket.
Being in the house, the aspects of life shared, and maybe even my job are the things I need to get rid of and can't.
Was just using all the chips to attempt to have a goodbye conversation since it was a person just left without a word when you weren't there sorta thing.
Now it's up to you to respect her wishes and let it go.
If that stuff limits your ability to process through this then it's best to get rid of it. For your own health my friend.