Random Thoughts.....What Are You Thinking?
Langues: JP EN DE FR
users online
Forum » Everything Else » Undead » Random Thoughts.....What are you thinking?
Random Thoughts.....What are you thinking?
First Page 2 3 ... 17942 17943 17944 ... 22740 22741 22742
 
Offline
Posts:
By 2015-09-23 15:26:16
 Undelete | Edit  | Link | Citer | R
  
Post deleted by User.
 Bismarck.Misao
Offline
Serveur: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
user: misacat
Posts: 22620
By Bismarck.Misao 2015-09-23 15:26:59
Link | Citer | R
  
Shiva.Spathaian said: »
Why are the skittles drunk?
YouTube Video Placeholder
 Kittykite
Offline
Posts: 2564
By Kittykite 2015-09-23 15:27:41
Link | Citer | R
  
Ackeron said: »
pvp steps
if it makes you feel better I can't do pvp at all :( cause my internet sucks too much ;;
[+]
 Bismarck.Dracondria
Offline
Serveur: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
Posts: 33979
By Bismarck.Dracondria 2015-09-23 15:28:16
Link | Citer | R
  
Your internet is pvping you
[+]
 Asura.Kingnobody
Bug Hunter
Offline
Serveur: Asura
Game: FFXI
Posts: 34187
By Asura.Kingnobody 2015-09-23 15:28:28
Link | Citer | R
  
Shiva.Spathaian said: »
Asura.Kingnobody said: »
Shiva.Spathaian said: »
Asura.Kingnobody said: »
lolfps
Lolbanana
lolskittles
Why are the skittles drunk?
Easier to read them.
 Kittykite
Offline
Posts: 2564
By Kittykite 2015-09-23 15:29:23
Link | Citer | R
  
Bismarck.Dracondria said: »
Your internet is pvping you
and neither of us can get a kill because we are too busy teleporting around the arena :/
 
Offline
Posts:
By 2015-09-23 15:31:53
 Undelete | Edit  | Link | Citer | R
  
Post deleted by User.
 Jetackuu
Offline
Posts: 42698
By Jetackuu 2015-09-23 15:33:33
Link | Citer | R
  
Asura.Floppyseconds said: »
Josiahkf said: »
And yes I do really loathe my family for their behaviour, their personalities their ideals, everything. But that doesn't mean I can't care for their well being and help them etc.

Difference is, I don't.


Anyway, I just switched auto insurance to Progressive and I am now saving ~$1,100 a year compared to Geico. Which seems to enjoy luring you in at a low rate then jacking you up around the corner against the lockers while a green Australian watches.
Funny, my Geico bill is ~$66 a month.
 Bismarck.Dracondria
Offline
Serveur: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
Posts: 33979
By Bismarck.Dracondria 2015-09-23 15:33:37
Link | Citer | R
  



[+]
 Yatenkou
Offline
Posts: 1968
By Yatenkou 2015-09-23 15:36:52
Link | Citer | R
  
Bismarck.Misao said: »
Shiva.Spathaian said: »
Why are the skittles drunk?
YouTube Video Placeholder

Gimme that blue one!!!
[+]
 Bismarck.Misao
Offline
Serveur: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
user: misacat
Posts: 22620
By Bismarck.Misao 2015-09-23 15:40:00
Link | Citer | R
  
zzzzzzzzz

[+]
 Shiva.Spathaian
Offline
Serveur: Shiva
Game: FFXI
user: Spathaian
Posts: 27982
By Shiva.Spathaian 2015-09-23 15:41:02
Link | Citer | R
  
Josiahkf said: »
Shiva.Spathaian said: »
I'm sorry to say but the idea of unconditional love, whether towards "family" or towards friends is rather... Weak.

Caring for humans in general is very different than unconditional love and I feel is more what you're aiming at. It's the idea of no one(or at least many people) really wants to see someone else to die or be hurt. But that's very different from unconditionally loving them and simply being related by blood or being loved by the other person does not instantly mean you must feel the same towards them. If this were the case you'd essentially be saying a stalker is someone you should love.

We choose to love, or rather acknowledge, those who we feel are worth the time. That's going to be different for everyone. I for one am on the side that blood means little to nothing. I keep my family members in my life because of who they are as people not because they birthed or raised me, if they ever change in a way that I find displeasing, yes I will "disown" them.

Love is earned, not simply given.
On the stalker point, that is not unconditional love. That is someone taking the belief they are in love when in reality they are unhealthily feeling obsession. Regardless of how much they badly want it to be love.

I gave many examples of when people feel the genuine unconditional love and we will have to definitely agree to disagree. Along your behaviour a son could walk home and decide to change his life and the father simply disown him and stop loving him, "because he did something that displeases me." That is not how love works.

And unconditional love having to be earned? That is not a friendship we're talking about. You cannot force your child to earn your love when he is born for example.

It sounds like you're just talking about quality friendships which are great sure but turning that into family is pretty rare. That is not unconditional love.

As humans we do not choose who we love, we choose who we express our love for.
Fathers do often disown their children for changing something about their life though. Have you not seen the many homosexual who come out to their families only to be thrown to the curb or sent to "rehabilitation" classes to attempt to convert them to a state they find acceptable?

I didn't say unconditional love is earned, I said unconditional love does not exist, because nothing is unconditional. There will always be a condition for why we care for someone. Whether it's a result of our personality or the result of actual events, those are conditional.

When your child is born? Most parents love them because they are of their own body, because they "worked" for that child. That child has earned their love. However, as you said in your last post, there are those who give up their child, and I'm not talking about adoptions that were made to benefit the child due to things such as poverty, I'm talking about those who willingly give up on a child, sometimes before it's even born.

Family will always be defined by individuals, even if a government has a different definition of it. Our family is who we care about most, those who we feel are worth our time and have earned their spot in our lives.

That said, I'll agree to disagree and I'll leave the discussion there.
[+]
 Anna Ruthven
Forum Moderator
Offline
Serveur: Excalibur
Game: FFXIV
user: AnnaMolly
Posts: 25993
By Anna Ruthven 2015-09-23 15:42:09
Link | Citer | R
  
Yatenkou said: »
Bismarck.Misao said: »
Shiva.Spathaian said: »
Why are the skittles drunk?
YouTube Video Placeholder

Gimme that blue one!!!
Dibs on purple.
 Ackeron
Offline
Posts: 6304
By Ackeron 2015-09-23 15:44:33
Link | Citer | R
  
Ohji Lunartail said: »
btw wat do ya play destiny on ?
PS4
 
Offline
Posts:
By 2015-09-23 15:44:39
 Undelete | Edit  | Link | Citer | R
  
Post deleted by User.
 Jetackuu
Offline
Posts: 42698
By Jetackuu 2015-09-23 15:46:32
Link | Citer | R
  
Asura.Floppyseconds said: »
Jetackuu said: »
Asura.Floppyseconds said: »
Josiahkf said: »
And yes I do really loathe my family for their behaviour, their personalities their ideals, everything. But that doesn't mean I can't care for their well being and help them etc.

Difference is, I don't.


Anyway, I just switched auto insurance to Progressive and I am now saving ~$1,100 a year compared to Geico. Which seems to enjoy luring you in at a low rate then jacking you up around the corner against the lockers while a green Australian watches.
Funny, my Geico bill is ~$66 a month.

NJ is the worst state in the nation for car insurance. When Jac moved to PA hers went down from above that to slightly below that for the same exact coverage and provider.

That, and my age is biting me here on this one.

Youngun'

and yeah, forgot about the lolNJ thing.
 Ackeron
Offline
Posts: 6304
By Ackeron 2015-09-23 15:49:03
Link | Citer | R
  
Damn! So close ... trying to get the new Exotic Sniper Rifle from the secret area in todays Heroic Storyline. Got to the last room and ran out of time ; ;
 Valefor.Sehachan
Guide Maker
Offline
Serveur: Valefor
Game: FFXI
user: Seha
Posts: 24219
By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-09-23 15:51:43
Link | Citer | R
  
If I get a child I'll give it unconditional love. Through unconditional abortion.
[+]
 Anna Ruthven
Forum Moderator
Offline
Serveur: Excalibur
Game: FFXIV
user: AnnaMolly
Posts: 25993
By Anna Ruthven 2015-09-23 15:52:59
Link | Citer | R
  
Valefor.Sehachan said: »
If I get a child I'll give it unconditional love. Through unconditional abortion.
I feel I shouldn't have laughed at this...but I did.
 Ackeron
Offline
Posts: 6304
By Ackeron 2015-09-23 15:54:09
Link | Citer | R
  
Valefor.Sehachan said: »
If I get a child I'll give it unconditional love. Through unconditional abortion.
[+]
 Bismarck.Dracondria
Offline
Serveur: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
Posts: 33979
By Bismarck.Dracondria 2015-09-23 15:54:31
Link | Citer | R
  
Valefor.Sehachan said: »
If I get a child I'll give it unconditional love. Through unconditional abortion.

[+]
 
Offline
Posts:
By 2015-09-23 15:54:49
 Undelete | Edit  | Link | Citer | R
  
Post deleted by User.
[+]
 Valefor.Sehachan
Guide Maker
Offline
Serveur: Valefor
Game: FFXI
user: Seha
Posts: 24219
By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-09-23 15:55:02
Link | Citer | R
  
I know what you're all thinking, that's too romantic.
 
Offline
Posts:
By 2015-09-23 15:55:55
 Undelete | Edit  | Link | Citer | R
  
Post deleted by User.
[+]
 Sylph.Shadowlina
Forum Moderator
Lockstylin'
Offline
Serveur: Sylph
Game: FFXI
Posts: 6115
By Sylph.Shadowlina 2015-09-23 15:56:25
Link | Citer | R
  

What... did i just even...
[+]
 Kittykite
Offline
Posts: 2564
By Kittykite 2015-09-23 15:57:03
Link | Citer | R
  
Ackeron said: »
Damn! So close ... trying to get the new Exotic Sniper Rifle from the secret area in todays Heroic Storyline. Got to the last room and ran out of time ; ;
I started mine but couldn't complete it ;; not high enough light stupid wizard part is killing me.
 Shiva.Spathaian
Offline
Serveur: Shiva
Game: FFXI
user: Spathaian
Posts: 27982
By Shiva.Spathaian 2015-09-23 15:57:10
Link | Citer | R
  
Should have kept my mouth shut. ._.
 Bismarck.Dracondria
Offline
Serveur: Bismarck
Game: FFXI
Posts: 33979
By Bismarck.Dracondria 2015-09-23 16:00:44
Link | Citer | R
  
Spath is Vyre's and Kojo's lovechild
[+]
 
Offline
Posts:
By 2015-09-23 16:04:55
 Undelete | Edit  | Link | Citer | R
  
Post deleted by User.
 Valefor.Sehachan
Guide Maker
Offline
Serveur: Valefor
Game: FFXI
user: Seha
Posts: 24219
By Valefor.Sehachan 2015-09-23 16:06:41
Link | Citer | R
  
What is a defimitelly?
[+]
Top Show Op
First Page 2 3 ... 17942 17943 17944 ... 22740 22741 22742
Log in to post.