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You know im probably gonna be trash talked, but seriously it is just a freakin game. Theres this little button on ur machine where all u have to do is push it and all ur problems/drama/headaches go away. Its really amazing.

As for SE, all they have to do is pull the plug and the game dissapears!

Granted, you do make really good friends but unless you have some form of talking outside of the game, you wont continue to talk. I know this from experience, all your "friends" do go away when you transfer servers or quit for a little while, you think they still talk to you? Everyone on your friends list? Most of them don't even know you are gone, let alone turn their backs on you because you joined this linkshell instead of that one.

To this day because you were in that linkshell, even tho its been disbanded for years, your "friends" still hate you.

You tell urself its "just a game" because in the end it is. If your crying because your party sucks or you tossed your ridill, its time to take a breather from the game and re-adjust. Some people are not going to take the game as seriously as you do and will interfere with your game but at least by you playin how you want, and find people you enjoy playing with, and thats what makes the game fun.