those items taht Uaewarrior posted are correct but you dont trade them all to Lulupp. you have to trade them in a specific order to different Opo-opo's found in Kazham
actually, you only will get +7 CHR...eating a pamama while this is equipped technically gives +14, but the -7 from the crown still applies. Personally, I prefer to equip a Sha'ir turban (or noble's ribbon at lower levels) and eat Tuna sushi...it gives a higher CHR boost than the crown with pamamas.